There are those kind of relationships.

You know, the passionate ones. The ones where sex is constantly on your mind. You spend your days imagining fingertips, lips, teeth, and tongue exploring every inch of bare skin. Every date, you sit across from each other, both of you nodding your heads, barely tolerating the required pretense of interest in conversation before you can satisfy your urges. You crave each other. It’s insatiable. It’s short lived. Besides a strong desire to feel skin against skin, you have nothing in common.

There are those kind of relationships.

You know, the needy ones. The ones where the other person loves you, wants you, needs you desperately. You like them, you may even love them, but your feelings can never match theirs. They are always so far ahead of you. It’s clear to everyone that they love you more. They call you incessantly. They are offended when you do things without them. They forgive you instantly for any transgression. Without you, their life would have little or no meaning. You are the center of their world. It’s short lived. These relationships can’t last. The neediness of the other eventually eats away at you. It wears you out. It makes you realize that you can’t respect them anymore.

There are those kind of relationships.

You know, the desperate ones. The ones where you love the person so much more than they love you. The ones where you chase after the other person with all of your heart. You wake up early to fix your hair a certain way, dress a certain way, make them their favorite meals. You constantly try to remain interesting and attractive and alluring. You feel yourself putting other things aside, ignoring important things to satisfy them. You know you’re pathetic. You know that they can leave you at any moment. You’re entire life is filled with the insecurity of knowing that you love them more. They are everything.

There are those kind of relationships.

You know, the real ones. The ones where you like to talk, to play, to argue, and to fuck. The ones where you can’t stand each other and can’t stand to be apart from one another at the same time. The ones where you each have your own life, but you allow each other to enrich them instead of control them. The ones where you switch off being needy and desperate but generally are equally obsessed. The ones where you feel secure but not bored, where you are just as excited about the conversation you have during dinner as the sex you’ll have afterwards. You’ve seen each other bitchy, whiny, ugly, tired, sick and you still want each other desperately. It’s the ones where you know that neither of you is perfect, but you’re perfect for each other.

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which one do we fall under? :D

You can’t control when you lose your heart. The only thing you can do is trust - trust that the person who has your heart realizes its value.
— Grey’s Anatomy


i actually like this song. and they sing better than the original singer. (: i'll marry the guy if he sings this to me man. :D

what do you do when the one thing that makes you happy makes everyone else you love unhappy?

read this, my friends.

Love yourself, accept yourself, forgive yourself and be good to yourself, because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things.
Leo F. Buscaglia (via kari-shma)

He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.
Elbert Hubbard
tell me, how do you do that?

Mistakes occur and that’s life. But repeating the same mistake over and over again? That’s stupidity.
http://365thoughts.tumblr.com/

i want this read at my funeral please. whichever kind it may be.

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there,
I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond light on snow
I am the sunlight on the ripened grain
I am the gently falling autumn rain

When you wake in the morning hush
I am the swift uplighting rush
of quiet birds in circling flight
I am the soft starlight at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there,
I did not die

~ unknown :D

When a guy can handle your flaws, love you on your moody days, kiss you when you don’t look great, and say you’re beautiful no matter what happens, he’s worth loving.

three days ago, when i was walking home from work, this uncle in a stationary lorry looked at me and started talking. i didnt really want to look at him so i pretended not to be 'bothered' by him. but something he said caught me attention. he said, "if your leg hurt, why are you still walking home?" in mandarin of cos. but what surprised me was even a stranger could care for you in such a simple way, why is it that we always fail to show the same concern for people that we love in every possible way? that put a smile on my face and that smile lasted all the way home. (: sweet uncle. nice people i meet to and fro work.

And you know the thing is, if you have to stop and ask yourself “is it really worth it?” it probably isn’t.

i realised that ive been neglecting here since i fell sick (AGAIN!) am feeling a tad bit better but generally, still feeling weak. like the energy has been drained outta me. but heres something to share

Some people never say the words ‘I love you’. It’s not their style to be so bold. Some people never say those words: ‘I love you’ But, like a child, they’re longing to be told
Paul Simon

i really doubt it wasnt you.

People always say that, when you love someone, nothing in the world matters. But that’s not true, is it? You know, and I know, that when you love someone, everything in the world matters a little bit more.
“— Jodi Picoult, Handle With Care

fuck, stop getting on my nerves. fuck, im already stressed enough without you breathing down my neck and nagging non stop. i just dont feel like talking, dont even feel like typing in msn. so stop annoying me already, youre irritated, go do something else then. STOP BOTHERING ME! at least for now. fuck.

"If I Were A Boy"


If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I’d roll outta bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted then go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wanted
And I’d never get confronted for it.
Cause they’d stick up for me.


If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man.
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it’s broken
So they’d think that I was sleepin’ alone
I’d put myself first
And make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she’d be faithful
Waitin’ for me to come home (to come home)


If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man.
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted (wanted)
Cause he’s taken you for granted (granted)
And everything you had got destroyed


It’s a little too late for you to come back
Say its just a mistake
Think I’d forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong


But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand
Yeah you don’t understand
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you have got destroyed
But you’re just a boy

just simply cos i think its pretty. (:

Her kiss was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering.
The History of Love - Nicole Krauss
aww..

In this world there are only two tragedies: one is not getting what you want, the other is getting it.
Oscar Wilde (via @johannal)
thus i always say, the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side.

So tell me now, where was my fault?
In loving you with my whole heart.
Mumford and Sons - White Black Page
SCREW LOVE.

Falling in love — you should go with it, regardless of whether or not your heart gets smashed. You’ll be a better person.
Sandra Bullock | Submitted by ayeexiana
how true. (:

If you want to be happy, be.
Leo Tolstoy

easy to say when youre having the worst weekend till date. ):

I don’t just want your heart. I want your flesh, your skin and blood and bones, your voice, your thoughts, your pulse and most of all your fingerprints, everywhere
Isobel Thrilling | Submitted by lysergicacidiethylamide

♥ sweets. he always know when to talk to me. (:

When you say “I love you”,

you are making a promise

with someone else’s heart.

Try to honour it.

but then again, you know you lah. pffft!

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.
George Nathan
if only that was true..

Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful
A Walk to Remember
its no wonder.

It’s not enough to believe! Don’t you see that, you stupid girl? You could spend your whole life hoping and believing! If a love affair is one-sided, then it’s only ever a question, never an answer. You can’t live your life waiting for an answer.
Sadie | Twenties Girl by Sophie Kinsella
no, i cant.

Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.
C.S Lewis
hell yeah.

I forgave you because well, I can’t stand not having you in my life.

True friendship isn’t being inseparable, it’s being separated and nothing changes.
(: @yuyan @toby @arisa @shiying @genghui ♥

xD love thissssss

I needed to know that I meant something, anything to you. But what I got was nothing. Absolutely nothing. And it’s funny the things you realize when someone walks away. At first, you feel as though it’s your fault. Feeling empty, and so close to falling apart. And then in time, you come to the realization that you did nothing wrong. That it’s his loss, that you are so much better without that one person who didn’t ever care. You live and you’ll learn, that’s how it is.

What” and “If” — two words as nonthreatening as words come. But put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: “What if…
Letters to Juliet | Submitted by Ishaaa

i fell in love with her when we were together, then tell deeper in love with her in the ears we were apart.
-dear john
now thats what i call true love.

No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater. The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.
“This Lullaby” By Sarah Dessen (via itsenough)

forget them all. come with me and you'll never have to worry about grown up things again. never is an awefully long time.
-peter pan

quit hiding me, or im gonna blow some time.